‘DISCOVERED IN 200,000 BC……RE-Discovered In The 21st Century’
SEX is a powerful “Social Addiction” which HOOKS 22 Million males and females into uncontrollable lifestyles. This part of the U.S. Population has a serious ‘pain/pleasure’ principle which preoccupies mind and matter 24/7. It dominates behavior, damages relationships, destroys families and careers, drains energy, promotes dramatic mood swings, adversely effects physical and mental health……all of which block healthy lifestyles.
There is a much larger segment of society who have a SATISFYING, calming, meaningful pleasure that is part of a completeness shared with someone special they LOVE. So why is sex for some overwhelming, destructive, harmful, insanely abnormal? Answers to deviant sexual behavior by professionals may somewhat surprise you.
Psychiatry’s bible (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) defines sex addictions as obsessive compulsive behavior. Most psychiatrists, psychologists, sociologists, sex therapists; when baffled by conditions that have no answers; instead conjure up a barrage of labels. Theirs is the license to medicate, hold group sessions, include spiritual guidance and… just hope. Yet despite the best efforts of authorities in the medical community, negative statistics continue to escalate in unsustainable number.
Why has traditional treatment merely scratched the surface? The answer lies in HISTORY. Since time immemorial the origin and purpose of human life was to PRESERVE the species. Rightfully so because during the beginning of civilization, the human species was in danger of EXTINCTION. Today with 7 BILLION people on earth, this premise doesn’t seem to apply.
Whatever your belief system, it is imperative for you to understand that attractions, sexual tensions, energy transference, biological reactions and physiological chemistry within the human body has and continues to OVERPOWER all reason and behavior. What cannot be denied is the BIOLOGICAL DRIVE to sexual dominance.
Now the real question: How does a society cope with and maintain a BALANCE of TOO MUCH or too little? And the real answer: Knowing sex is borne from INSTINCT, controlled by CULTURES, makes it a SOCIAL ADDICTION……not a medical illness. Therefore we can take control of it.
Let’s take that section of our knowing NARCISSISTIC SOCIETY who possesses those same biological instincts and SATURATE it COMMERCIALLY with SEX, allow pornography to flaunt, promote competition between aging and youth, reinforce thrill seekers and warring video games, entertain with negative media and onslaught of killings, keep pushing the button of high speed for faster self satisfaction……AND what is the BREED that comes out of all this ??? My guess is you already answered it.
*SOLUTION: Let’s get mental and physical. When the most powerful SOCIAL ADDICTION on earth ENSLAVES you, you’re battling a force of nature comparable to a TSUNAMI ! Successful steps to take are from the book: “Mind Matter Motion”
*ACCEPT the fact each day that because you are human this sexual urge is for a PRIMAL reason to perpetuate the species. In our civilized world the act itself is useful in pleasure for sexual health and more meaningful in a loving relationship.
*DROP the STIGMA of ‘addiction’ is a dirty word. “Addiction Is Not A Problem…It’s A Process.”
*PHYSICAL…get clearance medically from your family physician for daily STRENUOUS physical exercise (preferably running) because pulling your own body weight across the ground is the most challenging and stimulates your built in CHEMISTRY CLOSET.
*ENERGY TRANSFERENCE occurs during physical exertion which ACTIVATES the chemicals where you can make the EXCHANGE from a USA (Undesirable Social Addiction) to a DSA (Desirable Social Addiction).
*NO SIDE EFFECTS when you learn to conquer your own physiology.
*MENTAL…keep the therapeutic mental dumping with a professional going on simultaneously. Include the family interaction which is vital for them to learn with your example as teacher.
*SOCIAL ADDICTION PROCESS……use it or abuse it. Remember forming HABIT is habitual because repetition of any act solidifies it. This puts the POWER in your hands of choice. Change NARCISSISTIC behavior of……I – ME – MY……to……WE – US – THEY.
Diagnosis/Prognosis taken from professional clinical research (social addictions) of LaneGene Company – Motionosis who accepts no liability for the content or for the consequences of any public actions taken on the basis of the information provided. Consult your family physician before undergoing any physical or mental health programs.
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